今晚是个失眠的夜晚。跟认识将近10年的好姐妹吵了一架。这将近10年的时间，我们从来没起争执。我性格比较急躁，她性格比较温顺，所以能说她迁就我比较多。然而这一次的争执，却是因为她男友，一个表面上看起来是个好男人，实际上是有不为人知的一面。想一想或许觉得这样很恐怖，但其实也没有恐怖到变态的那种啦。只不过是他随时随地会骇进电话里进行一些偷听对话或偷看讯息。如我朋友说，或许是因为关心她所以才会那么做，我也只好忍了下来。可是接二连三发生这样的事，我已经忍无可忍了。
今天那个男生找了我朋友，说有东西要交给她，出来见个面了。但是我不知道那中间发生了什么事。我只知道当我朋友致电给我时是在街上，大声地哭，一直说对不起、对不起，还说之前一直都是她的错，她肮脏，她犯贱。我听得出，那是心被撕裂的痛时大声哭出来的。我也不知道，到底发生了什么事，才会让她哭成这样、会说这样的话。她并没有偷情，也没有脚踏跟多条船。她做的只不过是跟男友吵架的这段期间一直找我诉苦发泄而已。
然而今天接到她的电话后，我看清了一些事，也清楚了解一些道理。原来倾听别人诉苦有时并不是好事。但是身为一个姐妹，我能任由她不管吗？但是我也不知道，当我选择成为倾听者的那一刻起，我就注定被卷入这个纠纷里。如果早知道事情会演变成现在这样，那我宁愿当初选择没听过这事，或者以平常心去看待。但是这世界上没有如果的事。我用尽我曾经学过的辅导方法去开导我朋友，听听她诉诉苦，然而这一切被那男银颠覆一切我说的话。我说，有问题可以找我商量，也可以帮助他得到她的原谅，但是我从她的那方听到的却是说我给他压力; 今天我说他们到底为了什么又在争吵，还说了她最近身体不舒服，就应该暂时不要找她谈事情了（因为我知道只要他们一见面就是争吵），过些时日再找她谈，结果又听到说我告诉他，她不想见到他。我心想: 勒个鸡！！！我好心劝解却遭到这样的代价。既然她不听也不做决定，他烂缠爱扭曲事实，那从此以后我再也不要当这好人了...反正好人难当，好姐妹好朋友更难当，我又那么懒，不爱做难题，不如干脆找个容易当的角色---路人甲。
结论: 少管别人的事。无私固然好，但还是自私好。从小父母老师教我们要当好人，关心人，时常帮助人; 但我今天领悟到偶尔当当自私的人也不错。想听就听，不想听就让她痛苦去。以后朋友有难不再两肋插刀，所谓有福同享，有难自己扛。就说我自私也好，冷血也罢; 我的身体是我的，我的心也是我的，我有责任好好保护它们不受到任何伤害。说到底，我也只不过是不想受伤而已.....我......不想再当好人了......
2015年3月21日星期六
OW:L Espresso Cafe
Malaysia is always in hot weather, that's why most of the Malaysians like to crave for something cool. But where to go??? There are a lot of cafe/shops that sell desserts.
Today got the mood to crave for dessert after dinner with friend. We got a few choices to go as we want to get something cool. At first, we plan to go Caffe Been which is located in Solaris Mont Kiara for my favorite bingsu. After that, we changed our mind to go another cafe in Damansara uptown to get something special (can't remember what is it). At last, we got the decision to come over to OW:L Espresso Cafe which is located in SS15.
After ordered, we get this UFO. (P.S. the owl looks odd by holding two cups of coffee with wings XD)
These are what we ordered. Chocolate brownie and coffee affogato.
Chocolate brownie
Coffee affogato
Detail of cafe
Address: Retail 4 (A-02-1), Menara Rajawali, Jalan SS15/8, Subang Jaya, 47650 Selangor.
Tel: 03-5612 4826
Business hour: 10am-12am
Today got the mood to crave for dessert after dinner with friend. We got a few choices to go as we want to get something cool. At first, we plan to go Caffe Been which is located in Solaris Mont Kiara for my favorite bingsu. After that, we changed our mind to go another cafe in Damansara uptown to get something special (can't remember what is it). At last, we got the decision to come over to OW:L Espresso Cafe which is located in SS15.
After ordered, we get this UFO. (P.S. the owl looks odd by holding two cups of coffee with wings XD)
These are what we ordered. Chocolate brownie and coffee affogato.
Chocolate brownie
The ice is in small pieces, which makes it doesn't melt fast. I was typing this blog while I ate this. It didn't melt that fast and still remain the shape even after I finish typing this blog!!!!
Coffee affogato
The structure of this is smooth like what we normally got for ice cream. So it melts fast compared to the one above.
Detail of cafe
Address: Retail 4 (A-02-1), Menara Rajawali, Jalan SS15/8, Subang Jaya, 47650 Selangor.
Tel: 03-5612 4826
Business hour: 10am-12am
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